Sucker for the route

In life, we tend to settle for things that we do not truly want. There are set backs, alternate routes, and trials that we go through to see if we can always have sight of what we want. But it always seems to be right out of arms reach. Everyone has their own troubles when it comes to achieving their goals, and more times than not, those people settle. What does it take to keep going?

To continue forward through whatever obstacles stand in your way takes guts, and other times you just followed a different path. We settle, but in our hearts that is truly meant for us to be where we are. Life has no instruction guide, no checklist, and it sure as hell is not written in a book where we can skip to the end. We as people get to go into everyday not knowing what will happen the next minute, second, or day from now. Let alone a year. People use other people to get what they want, or to get ahead. You can’t blame them, they’re just playing the game. And for those of you whom have been personally victimized by this, I feel for you, because we’ve all been there. The uncertainty of life, different paths, and roads that we have travelled on to get to where we are, they shape us to be ready for those turns and bumps that come out of nowhere. We are prepared for heartbreak and pain, but we are not ready for the unexpectedness of getting out heart broken. That’s why it hurts so bad, or when you realize that what you thought you wanted was not what you needed. Needing and wanting something, are two very different things. YOU DO NOT NEED A UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. (It’s in all caps so the people in the back can hear me. )

You get to choose who is in your life and who is not. If that person hurts your feelings they hurt them no matter how someone tells you how to feel. Everyday is a new journey, you just learn how to navigate better.